We got this card game for kids. One set of cards has situations and another set has feelings. So for example, you’d draw the card “How do you feel when it’s your birthday?” and the kid picks the card “I feel excited!”
I picked up a card and asked Evan, “How do you feel when you break your favorite toy?”
Ignoring all the feeling cards, he said, “Fix it!”
https://xkcd.com/670/
’nuff said